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Emma McIntyre
When the cast ofDallas,includingPatrick Duffy,Linda Gray, Joan Van Ark,Charlene Tilton, Audrey Landers, and Steve Kanaly, reunited this week at Oscar’s cabaret venue in Palm Springs, one person was not there — and yet his spirit loomed large.
Larry Hagman, who played J.R. Ewing onDallasfor 14 seasons before hedied in 2012 at the age of 81, was on the collective mind of the cast.
“Oh, his character, J.R. was such an asshole,” Gray, who played Hagman’s wife Sue Ellen, exclusively tells PEOPLE. “But Larry was wonderful.”
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“I went home and told my wife. I said, ‘I think I just met my best friend.’ Oh, that was at the table reading ofDallas. It’s the same way I felt when I met my wife. And same way I felt when I met the lady I’m with now. There was an unspoken history,” he says. “So who am I to say when that started? So I don’t care. I participate in the moment. So when I shook Larry’s hand, it was like, ‘Oh s—, this is not the first time.'"
“I’m still connected to Haggy,” Duffy adds. “Absolutely. I think of him and I start to giggle. Haggy was my best friend — probably many times.”
Chiming in, Van Ark, 79, says: “He did several of theKnots Landingepisodes too. He brought all that energy and that passion that he has and the jokester, all the levels Larry brought, oh my God. The jokes with him on a set… I think that’s the happiest place in the world. And the silent Sundays where he wouldn’t talk. Oh boy.”

“He wouldn’t talk to anybody on Sundays,” Duffy remembers.
“He would whistle!” Gray, 82, says. “To get your your attention, he would whistle.”
Gray had to deal with this eccentricity over the years, as they were close friends off set and traveled together with their spouses.
“We would travel to Europe and every Sunday he wouldn’t speak. He would whistle.Whistle. His wife would show the menu and point and all that. And he would whistle what he wanted," she recalls.

Was this vocal rest?
“No, it’s bullshit. Bullshit!” Gray says with a laugh. “He did this for years and years. He was like a little boy. But it was also control. We’d be like, ‘Can we order this for you?’ And one day, we were in Germany, I said, ‘I’m done. I’m not not playing this anymore.’ And he was like a four year old. He was just like, ‘Oh, somebody caught me.’”
Landers, who played Hagman’s lover Afton, remembers a different, but still playful side of Hagman.
“For my first episode, I was coming in for only two episodes… at Lucy’s wedding,” she says, referring to Tilton’s character. “And the first scene was in bed with J.R. So I walk out on the set and I have this slip-on, covering my body, my shoulders exposed. Larry climbs in wearing jeans, cowboy boots.”
She pauses as her former castmates laugh. “But yeah, shirtless," she says.

“So we’re under the covers," Landers continues. “There’s a champagne bucket next to the bed. I had never met anyone, even Larry. The director says, ‘Action!’ Larry reached over, grabbed a handful of ice from the bucket, and puts it down my back. The camera is rolling. And I’m there. I was taught never to stop until the director says, ‘cut’ and never break concentration. And I am like, ‘Oh, do I say my first line? Oh my God.’ And I’m trying not to scream. And there’s like, this ice dripping down. And then, of course, everybody was in on the joke. So the whole crew starts laughing and the director says, ‘cut.’”
Landers concludes. “And then Larry says, ‘See , that’s how we break the ice in Dallas.’”
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Dallasran for 14 seasons from 1978 to 1991, earning four Emmys along the way. The show followed the wealthy Ewing family and the drama that surrounded their booming oil business and their entangled personal lives.
“Larry Hagman was my best friend for 35 years. He was the Pied Piper of life and brought joy to everyone he knew,” Gray, 82, said in a statement released to PEOPLE at the time. “He was creative, generous, funny, loving and talented and I will miss him enormously. He was an original and lived life to the fullest. The world was a brighter place because of Larry.”
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All 13 original seasons ofDallascan be streamed on Amazon Freevee.
source: people.com